Marriage is hard. In fact, there's evidence it's getting even harder. , a social psychologist at Northwestern University, argues that's because our expectations of marriage have increased dramatically in recent decades. [A] marriage that would have been acceptable to us in the 1950s is a disappointment to us today because of those high expectations, he says.
The flip side of that disappointment, of course, is a marriage that's pretty amazing. Those of us who can meet the high expectations of modern marriage, Finkel says, may find a level of marital fulfillment that was out of reach until pretty recently.
This week we talk with Finkel and with historian about the evolution of marriage and where we are today. We'll also ask Finkel, author of ,for some tangible ways we can improve our love lives 鈥� including by asking lessof our partners.
Hidden Brain is hosted by Shankar Vedantam and produced by Jennifer Schmidt, Rhaina Cohen, Parth Shah, Thomas Lu, Laura Kwerel, and Adhiti Bandlamudi. Our supervising producer is Tara Boyle. You can follow us on Twitter .
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